I am a Teenager

Summary:

Life has not been as easy as she thought, she is slowly growing up and realizing things that had never appeared in her life before. Her friendship life is different, her love life is starting and her  family life is beginning to act different. Her way of thinking against Kevin is still there, she is worried because even though she has kissed a very important guy in school she still feels bad for doing it. Kevin is not a proper guy to be dating because he has been with a lot of girls since he is very hot.  She is starting to feel that even though she wants to try to  forget him because her friends say that she can't live longer thinking of a guy that docent deserve her she can't because he really meant a lot in her life as well. Yes, maybe he is hurting her but if she docent move on who knows, maybe she will get stuck in there forever and the only thing that will happen is that he is going to forget and she is going be in the future waiting for nothing. Although she does believe that hey will maybe end up together he docent demonstrate the same interest in her. Her mother and his dad may be in some part connected but they are still nervous because their decisions go with their Childs future. Well, the main point of this book is for the reader to conclude that people discover their growing process when they have their first kiss because we feel a connection with another person that could let us to amazing memories or it could be over really fast. 

Quotes:

¨Okay, i had Fallen for it, or at least hadn't been focused on that aspect of the situation, but no way was I opening my mouth and admitting it.¨ Pg. 117

Text Response:

I think that this quote kind of reflects how she kind of is, maybe a little shy about things and the truth or embarrassed that people would not go with what she thinks. I kind of understand her right know because yes sometimes its not easy to focus on the reality its like your are not sure of yourself and you lie or you are just not ready to speak it out. Its because we are not jet confidence of our thoughts and think that if we say something wrong we are going to be seen like someone stupid, that happens to me when I am going to present something and I'm not quite sure. Its part of the process, we can get nervous confused and just speak anything because our thoughts are not aspecting something different then what we are sure of.

¨Nothing fun about being number three when one and two are flirting .¨ Pg. 138

Text Response:

In this positions I think that its better to not influence much in other peoples ove situation. I mean that sometimes you can feel uncomfortable for being in between two relationships and I can connect to her friend Tess that in some part of the book she actually feels jellies of her friend and she gets in Kevin's way and kind of ruins what her friend and he had. But in my opinion, I rather think that people chose with what person they want to fall for, so that was one of te main concepts in the book. This showed me that when someone loves you he is going to go always for you no matter who or what opposes to that choice. 

Final Thoughts: 

To end up this blogs, I would like to say that even though we sometimes don't have a perfect chosen life, we have the opportunities to decide and that is a very important thing because sometimes like some people say we are so confused and  we have to let our hearts decide what we will have to face someday. And maybe love is demonstrated in different perspectives and we all like and deserve the same amount of chances.  As we can see not all of us love the same way, some of us pose to what love is and some of us are like most of us, with a regular love life. We have to be sure, aware that in some point we are going to face things never write-in our stories. One of the solutions for this is to learn how to let go, to go over it, to trust your minds and just continue with your normal lives. To regret what people say and to focus on what love really means to us. And when we are confused and can't think of anything after all, just let it be and heal with the truth. 

I Don't Like Him

Summary:

So, the thing is that sometimes love can get hard, it is difficult to maintain a relationship with ought struggling its like showering with ought water, impossible. Sometimes its because we are not sure of our own deceptions, or maybe we are confused. But I can say that probably it brings good things, new experiences and more opportunities. Most of the times there are fights, but it all leads to one thing, to the happy path the way all things should be. The girl is really strange, she is acting different and its because she is experiencing something new something that all of us are going through at some point, something nice but at the same time gross, our first kiss. Although her experience wasn't that bad she still feels worried because she feels she did something wrong and she did, who said we can't make mistakes. Our lives depend on our mistakes, if we make them we learn from them. So maybe she wasn't ready, maybe it was all about time because sometimes things can't go that fast like we think so.  Maybe she felt bad because she was one of the last in her age who had never kissed before, and it could actually happen to a lot of us. The big idea is that now that her mother nows almost everything she wants to get to know Kevin's parents and him as well. Yes, she is nervous because what if something went wrong or there was an embarrassing moment? What was she supposed to act like, was it her fault? In this moments we all get stressed because the fact that we are not ready for it, its a hard time. Well , we all change, we all have our times, so it could be that one say we feel something for someone and the next day we are completely disagreeing with it, it part of our lives.

Quotes:

¨I think that I really should tell her I already had gotten my first kiss, behind me.¨ Pg. 76

Text Response:

I think that this quote means that sometimes we realize that our problems need to be solved with help, maybe sometimes we need a moment to think twice and accept the reality that at some point we need someone who nows how to help us. This could probably mean that no we are not perfect and yes sometimes we hide things but we can always get advice.  All of us need some, its like basic in lives but we have to ask for it I mean help is not going to come and reach us, if we mess it up we better clean it up, its our responsibility to take care our ourselves. 

¨At school Kevin and I avoided each other completely.¨ Pg. 60

Text Response: 

This quote has a really strong meaning because it is a clear example of how relationships work out. It explains that like I said sometimes it is ridiculous but yes, there is bad times and we have to solve it at the end and always try to come up with better solutions. Never giving up is one basic thought that all of us need to have in mind, our world is full of problems but so what we can fix it, its never late for second chance. If we have the freedom of expression the why do we not seek for our needs if being with him makes her smile then we better start making something to find the way of happiness. 

Final Thoughts: 

To conclude this, I want to end by saying that this book has brought me a lot of memories that made me realize that not everything is always easy.When we talk about love sometimes we give it up to waste but then we realize it is a very important step in our lives.  Yes, its obvious that we  have bad moments and disagree with things, and there are times when we discuss and we know that we are not correct. That is called falling for your mistakes, we all have some and we need to start facing them. Even though sometimes we can't actually forgive something or forget we can always start from zero or give it another chance. Our existence depends in our choices, rather we follow what we feel or we lay and see how the world goes by and we still don't know what to do.  What I have always wondered is that if we have the liberty then why don't we take over it and let ourselves be us, let go of our doubts and get it all together to a solution. When I get in a issue I try and try till I find it and return it from where it started. When we start something and we begin strugguling we need to go back and find a way to start all over but with a better attitude and knowing what we are looking for the forward future. 

Confessions

Summary:

The past days I have been reading a lot this book and I find it really cool because at somme point it relates to myeline and I feel that this girl understands very well what an adolecen life is like. She explains her life in many different perspective that make her realize different situations as well. She is kind of confused since she thinks Kevin is a really hot guy but she is actually in love with another boy. The thing that complicates her thought is the fact that her best friend has been flirting with his crash al l the time so what is she supposed to think and act like if she had herself thinking that Kevin also liked her. So she hasn't had great days during every mess. She is distracted and can't even focus in school as well. Her life is being slowly  disappearing but her main focussing skill is for her to continue with her normal life and regret her chances.  Although she is kind of worried she has to know and understand that this could count as a normal growing process witch means that every adolescent has a similar case in their life. The problem is that she is feeling guilty for everything since she entered the new year in school.

Quotes:

¨ I have never shaken hands with a kid before¨.  Pg. 54

Text Response:

I think that this quote menas that this is the process tat life takes us through. At first we are afraid of talking to  boy and suddenly we are really close to one. When I was little I also was nervous because all of my finds would have a bunch of boy buddies and I would stay apart because I didn't know how to act over those situations or what is something when wrong and I looked like whatever girl in school. After a while I started realizing that we all have to take chances in life and so now I have really good friendships with boys and I totally think that it is a normal thing. Besides, this quote has showed be that everything comes to its time, we have to be patient and wait for the time to come.

¨My best friend was asking if I liked him the way I actually did very much and at every waking moment like him¨ Pg. 38

Text Response:

This is an example from the book that proves what I was saying. I think that in this quotes her best friend is trying to persuade her to tel her what she actually feels for Kevin s they both now what to do and continue on. Maybe she is willing to be with Kevin thats why she asked her for more information as well. Or it could be the opposite way I mean she is trying to help her best friend with him.

Final thoughts:

Finally in my opinion, she is not having favorite days, she is struggling with love and nobody understand her, she is alone and her only way of escaping for the truth is for her to be herself and go with what she feels like. If none can help her because as well, her family is telling her another perspective way of love she needs to stand up and go with what makes her feel more confident of herself. In the end we have to focus on what makes us happier. There is moments when we feel we can't find solutions and we are stuck I totally agree with her but I think that if we try harder or if we put a little more effort into it then there is always going to be a way out to nay problem. If we think that everything is always going to be a fail and negative then the results will turn up to be similar because all of our bad actions are together and then there is going to be no possible way anyone can make you change your min.  So, its always better to focus on what makes you feel good, on the positives marks and in the way you could improve your effects with ought harming yourself.